A dildo is a sex toy, often explicitly phallic in appearance, that’s used for sexual penetration or other sexual activity during masturbation or with sex partners. They can be made from a variety of materials and are often shaped like an erect human penis. The Kama Sutra is one of the oldest references to using sex toys, detailing how men who have no sex partners can satisfy themselves with dolls and dildos.
Aside from being a great masturbation tool, dildos can also be used for anal play, hand jobs, and clitoral stimulation. Some dildos are even double-ended, making them a great choice for couples to enjoy together.
Dildos are available in a variety of sizes and textures, so finding the right one for you can be an exciting exploration. They can be inserted straight into the anal canal for a sensation similar to penetrating a real penis, but they’re usually also compatible with a harness so they can be worn around the body. You can also get vibrating dildos that feature bullet-shaped vibrators inside, and some are designed to be worn in the mouth for oral sex.
The word dildo is thought to have originated from either English “diddle” (to trick) or Latin “diletto,” which means pleasure, hobby, or beloved object. Linguistic opinion is split on where the name actually came from, though, and it’s possible that it comes from an Old Norse word meaning ‘doll or effigy of a member.’
If you’re a first-time dildo owner, it’s important to know how to use your sex toy properly. For example, if you’re going to be inserting your dildo into your anal canal, it’s best to run it under warm water or apply lube to soften it up beforehand. This will help to reduce friction and increase the sensation of entry and exit, as well as decrease the likelihood of a UTI or other bacterial infection.
Similarly, you should always clean your dildo thoroughly after each use to prevent any bacteria from building up inside the tiny crevices of its shape. This is important for all sex toys, but especially with dildos since they’re more likely to harbor bacteria than other types of sex toys. Depending on the material of your dildo, cleaning might be as simple as soap and water or require a little more effort, such as with a special toy cleaner.
Aside from proper care, you should also keep in mind that there are different ways to play with a dildo. Some people prefer to clench their dildo tightly against the skin of the anus, while others may tap it gently or simply hold it against the clitoral hood. It’s also worth experimenting with different thrusting techniques—some people find that clenching their dildos can feel just as enjoyable as shoving it in and out, while others enjoy more traditional penetration. Then again, some dildos are specifically designed for that kind of penetration and will provide the most satisfying experience if you use them in that way.
